Gray Areas are Wonderful Places

As people rise up the ranks in management, there comes a time that they learn a very important lesson - management exists to live in the gray and to provide direction for the rest of the team to follow.

Managing gray is really a very dangerous activity -> if you lean toward one end more often than is perceived as required will bring you negative reviews. An example of a gray area is "the desire to service your customers" vs "the capacity to realistically deliver everything they ask for" or the gray area on " I believe in this employee and will give him a second chance" vs "I am sacrificing my company's interest by keeping him" or a simpler gray area that matches speed vs thoroughness. Work too fast on a project and you can be called reckless, work too thorough and you can be labeled as slow.

The key to successfully managing the gray is developing the ability to develop the sense to know, case by case, where you would lean into - to truly understand where the benefit will really lie and be wise in deciding and communicating the basis for the decision and what it means tactically to your team. There is no "one size fits all" nor a "silver bullet"

Few people understand the gray areas and fewer still write about it but there is a book that writes about it that I found enlightening in this discussion - >Managing the Gray Areas.

The thing is - we also quickly realize that the higher we go up the ranks, the bigger the gray areas become - eg "should I keep the model of this company being its new CEO and be reviewed as risk-averse" or "I should change the model of this company as its new CEO so I will be reviewed as revolutionary and out-of-the-box" thinker.

Bottom line - if you can't swim in the gray area and if you can't grow it - it will quickly show - not only through your output but also in the belief your team has for you...manage it will and it will be the only place you want to be.

How to Reach Your Career Destination - the GPS Way

A lot of us wonder why we seem to be stuck in our careers or why we have not yet reached our goal but at the same time though we have no problem using our GPS to get to our destinations so let's see how we can use the same GPS methodology to get to where we want to be.

1. Know exactly where you are going. Don't just think to yourself - I want to be a CEO or a VP or the best entrepreneur there is - really plan out the details - as if you are already living it. Write down your age, what your position is,what you are earning, where you a living - with as much detail as possible. Even GPS units need the whole address to get to its destination.

2. Know exactly where you are now. If you are not entirely sure by just thinking about it yourself because you are too "in to it" - do what GPS units do - find satellites. Industries typically call these reviews a 360 degree review but be brave and ask the questions that need to be ask from your peers, direct reports, managers - anyone who can give you their perspective of where you are right now.

3. Know how to get from here to there. Determine the best route possible based on your risk-tolerance or desire. Do you want a faster route - which may mean higher levels of stress(GPS analogy - tolls)? Do you want the scenic route? Do you want to avoid side streets or what we may call horizontal learning?

4. Check regularly if you are still on track and if not, recalculate. Putting down the end point, knowing your start point and drawing a line between the two points is just the start but a big start. You must also be prepared for unexpected turn of events or change in plans. The "street" you were planning to traverse might be under constructin or closed and thus you must regularly check your progress and make changes when necessary. You might even decide along the route that your end point has changed but the same steps apply - just follow your own internal GPS.

Career Advice for Project Managers

I have a team of people right now that all have sparks in them and on one-on-one discussions with them - most of them want to be project managers. I just know that all of them will become great project managers someday and I see myself as one of the few people who can help them get there faster...by telling them what mistakes I had and how I learned from them and hopefully they learn the lessons faster than I ever did...I figured that my own success is driven by them becoming great project managers in their own right so I always see this as a win-win move.

My team gets juicier projects and our sponsors know that even amidst of several high profile, complex projects - my team delivers.

One of the basic discussion points though that I think most people miss that is critical to their careers is knowing what they want to be when they grow up and I am not talking about people wanting to be VPs or even CEOs at some point in their lives but truly describing in detail how they see themselves becoming that person and what exactly are they doing by then and most importantly knowing what would it take for them to get from where they are now to where they truly truly want to be.

I always tell them that it is like using a GPS - their own career GPS so to speak.

1. Know in detail where you want to be (eg you typing the exact address in your GPS and not just the city)
2. Know exactly where you are right now (even the GPS does this first time you turn it on)
3. Know the milestones or critical turns that you need to remember along the way
4. Check every now and then if you are still on the right path
5. Expect surprises along the way and when they happen, be ready to take action and change direction if need be